Is it necessary to know your friends, ex’s, aunts, sisters and significant other’s every move via the Internet? This usually is not the question in my mind as I view the mood and status updates of mere acquaintances and those I have close relationships with. Yet this is the question posed as I read “Brave New World of Digital Intimacy.” I created a Facebook last week after attending this class for a month and realizing what a widespread phenomenon this social networking site truly is. I chose to make a Facebook because, as stated in the article, “It can be extremely hard to understand the phenomenon unless you’ve experienced it.” (5) I find it incredible that a person I met at a bar once can find me on Facebook and can learn intimate details of my life and visa versa. I believe these social pages open up a whole new world that redefines relationships.
I have had a MySpace for a few years, and recently MySpace added a News Feed that presents multiple updates. However, Facebook’s status system is far more intricate than MySpace’s system, and monitors a much wider scale of information.
Although I was used to daily updates on MySpace, Facebook takes these to another level, and I found Facebook rather overwhelming. While I agree these features make it much easier to keep track of friends, I feel that knowing an individuals every move is rather unnecessary, yet addicting. I too log onto these social networks, skimming through a sea of “I don’t want to go to work,” and “I hate school” updates. Yet these updates when pieced together can say a lot about someone, and I began to notice I was reading information about close friends that I would not know was occurring in their daily lives. I find myself relieved when I go onto my page and see updates for a cousin’s upcoming birthday that I would have otherwise forgotten.
“Facebook pushes the envelope and…gets [people] to be comfortable with things that they aren’t yet comfortable with.” (3) I believe that already since this article was written in 2006, that people are basically settled with the idea of knowing every detail about those they know, whether it be friends, family or acquaintances; this digital intimacy everyone shares has somehow become a normal way of life.




